I have a couple of friends that used to strip (female and male) and I've been behind the scenes with them a couple of times. Basically they provide a service - fantasy. Nothing more, nothing less. Like your friend, my friends would do their job, shower, collect that money and head home. My guy friends that used to strip would sleep with some of the women, but again they were just providing a fantasy. The next time those broads would show up at the club, they'd be "making it rain"...I'd watch in awe as these women would throw their money at these fools, thinking "silly rabbits, they don't want you, just your money"...lol. I'm not judging, just want some pole dancing lessons so I can get paid too damnit.
I never asked my female friends if they slept with any of the dudes from the clubs and they never offered up any info. I really don't care. So why did my friends strip? Trying to pay for college tuition for themselves, needing extra money to take care of ailing family member, lost a well paying job and had responsibilities and needed quick money, etc. Don't these sound like reasons any of us would get a side job? They just knew how to work smarter, not harder (while my ass was up in the mall working at Express and The Limited making minimum wage...smh).
And people making judgments about strippers, call girls, or anyone in the adult entertainment/sex industry is just plain hilarious to me. At least they are getting paid to do it. I know so many woman who sleep with this man and the next and don't have anything to show for it...well, maybe a kid or two, some past due bills, some bad credit, or something else he stuck her with that she didn't want. I know personally that teachers are some of the biggest freaks out there. So there is no room for some of them to open their mouth and say a damn thing (lest some bones will come flying outta that closet). And the worst part is they are doing it for free. I say, if you got all that "freak" in you, why not get paid for it?
Back in the day, my friends tried to get me to strip. When I saw the money they were bringing in, I seriously thought about doing it. But I got scared because I was imagining one of my uncles or cousins showing up for the show and seeing me there (complete mortification). But after knowing what I know now and having survived some of life's toughest blows to the gut, if I could get my 24 year-old shapely body back, I can't say that I wouldn't consider something like that for some quick cash. So in conclusion, you should not judge what other people do. As long as they are not hurting themselves or others or committing a crime against you, you should mind your business. We are all on the outside looking in. You don't know what drives people to do what they do. Just worry about yourself, make sure you can pay your way, and do what makes you happy.
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Well it is the oldest profession; everyone has a little whore in them.
Weather for profit or for play it does bring us drama or fun; having some whore in you is not bad if as you say you use it to freak ur mate every now and again or pay important bills, doesnt count if you wanna get that hot purse....now your just being whore-selfish.
The money angle is cool; i've donated to the cause bill by bill many years ago, but using it to get out the house and get a meal on Friday is kinda selling yourself short (pun intended).
But using ur whoreness to get back at someone so you can smile and know in the back of your head telling yourself "if you only knew what i did"; i find that wrong and the person is grossly misused their genitals for all the wrong reasons.
There are too many angles to the word whore it can make ur head spin and spit pea soup.
I would suggest you find a shirt that says "KEEP YOUR WHORENESS IN CHECK" the world would be a better place with one boob glance at a time when you wear that shirt, shit send me one and i'll fly that flag on the weekend when all the whores come out to play :)
BSoM
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